Event - I had a wedding last week that i was supposed to do the dj work for. When I got there none of my equipment worked. I usually have a backup system, but I was running late and didn't bring it. So they had no music at the reception. The hotel brouhgt in some stuff to help, but it wasn't what the couple paid for.
Apology - I feel so bad about this. And its not the money which I gave back. People only get married once, and now they're gonna think of me and what I did on that day. I told them how bad I feel and did eveything I could, but it's not enough.
Event - My sister just got her wedding pictures back and showed them to me. They are horrible. And I guess I told her that kinda. And even theough she thought they were bad to, she was upset at my comments.
Apology - You're right. The photos are what they are. The fact is you're a beautiful bride and no photo can show your true glow. I love you.
Event - My older sister and her fiance have been dating for 7+ years and were engaged a year ago (2008) at Christmas time. The family has been waiting since then for the announcement of a wedding date... and nothing. Not even a hint about what season they're considering, let alone a month and day. I'm the youngest sister and a month ago my fiance proposed to me. I waited a week before calling my oldest sister, fearing her reaction. Yup, she flipped out. Told me I had crossed the line "stealing her spotlight" marrying a man the family barely knows. An hour later my twin sister calls me to share her disappointment for my lack of respect toward the family with my announcement. Nevermind that prior to both of these phone calls my Grandmother, rather than tell me congratulations, told me that I should be more sensitive to toward my older sister.
Apology - I don't think I own any of them an apology. A year has passed with no news of the oldest sisters plans, and my twin sister was hoping to marry the guy she broke up with 4 months ago.
Event - The day before I got married I was at the rehearsal dinner and ran into one of my wife's bridesmaids in the lobby of the hotel. She asked to speak with me and we found a corner to talk. She told me she always had a crush on me and that if we were ever going to kiss, it should be now before I was married. I was very attracted to her too for years. Not in love but attracted. After some awkward time standing there, she just leaned over and started kissing me. And I didn't stop her. That was two years ago and everything has been fine since. I'm happily married and I have never cheated or wanted to.
Apology - I often think about that moment and how much freer I would feel if it had never happened and if I had just pulled away. At that moment I was playing the part of the victim who was being kissed. Later I came true to myself and admitted I let her do it. I wouldn't tell my wife this, but it's nice to get it off my chest.
Event - I got married to the woman I love last year. We decided we would make our own vows, but a couple days before the wedding I had nothing. It's not that I didn't love her, but I didn't know how to put it into words. I ended up going online and finding some vows posted on a website and just changing the name and little things to fit.
Apology - She was so touched, and that made it even worse. I'm sorry I did that, because now I have to think about it. What I said was sincere, but it wasn't me saying it.
