Event - I dated a few guys at a time while in college. I had 3 guys I strung along. I wasn't a hussy. we didn't sleep together or make life-long promises. but each of these 3 guys thought they were the only one. all of them were terrific men and I adored each of them. things were going great with all of them. But I broke up with all 3 when I realized who my true love was. It shocked them. one guy cried. another guy begged me not to leave him. the 3rd was just pissed when he relaized I loved someone short that didn't play basketball (yeah, he was the shallow guy of the 3). I told each of the 3 the same story - that I had found the guy I was going to marry (whom I was NOT dating at the time, and he and I did get married 6 months later). I am happy with my husband and kids. It just always bugs me how I did that break up and that I dated like that.
Apology - I am glad I am with the right man 13 years later. But I was so afraid of being alone that having a "boyfriend" in the cities I went to visit regularly was so nice. I feel bad about being that girl that shocked you when I said it was over even when things seemed so perfect. You were all great guys, amazing even. I handled myself poorly. sorry.
Event - I was dating this girl for sometime. We had a good relationship, didn't fight very much. We didn't date long, couple of months, then she started drifting away from me. I called her on it and she decided that we needed to end our relationship. I of course was not happy and made it a BIG deal. After we broke up I told a friend that I hoped the next guy she dated would treat her so bad she would know how good I had been to her. I found out a year or two later that the guy she started dating was very abusive and hit her.
Apology - I'm sorry for wishing that on you. I know you were just unhappy and thought it best for us to move on. I should have been more of a man and wished you the best of luck. I'm sorry you were hurt by a man who only thinks he's a man when he hurts women.
